“But if as you read this book you’re saying to yourself: “I’d rather be miserably married than be alone.” Well young lady, take out your clown shoes and buckle your seat belt – it’s going to be a very bumpy one-woman circus.”

“There’s something really cool about knowing that your destiny is SO big that you’re not meant to share it with anyone. At least not yet.”

“There are some places in life where you can only go alone. Embrace the beauty of your solo journey.”

“…Singles, too, must see the penultimate status of marriage. If single Christians don’t develop a deeply fulfilling love relationship with Jesus, they will put too much pressure on their DREAM of marriage, and that will create pathology in their lives as well.”

“Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love…but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.”

“Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.”

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”