“He’s giving me that look – sympathetic but also exasperated and mystified, like How is it possible that my sane and reasonable DNA created such a crazy daughter?”

“I don’t think relationships are just about physicality. There are ways to show you care about someone, not just using your lips. Or any other part. (Lara Jean to Peter Kavinsky)”

“All this? It’s a privilege to worship at this temple, do you understand my meaning? Not just any young fool can approach the throne. Remember my words, Lara Jean. You decide who, how far, and how often, if ever. (Stormy)”

“The only thing I’ll say is, make your own friends. Peter will be making tons of friends because of lacrosse, and the people he’ll be friends with aren’t necessarily the kinds of people you’d pick to be friends with. So make your own friends. Find your people. (Margot to Lara Jean)”

“How was I supposed to know what’s real and what’s not? It feels like I’m the only one who doesn’t know the difference.”

“I suppose I’ll say it all started with a love letter”

“Susannah continued. “If and when I go off slow dancing in the ever after, I don’t want to look like I’ve been stuck in a hospital room my whole life. I at least want to be tan.”

“Kitty’s always saying how origin stories are important.At college, when people ask us how we met, how will we answer them? The short story is, we grew up together. But that’s more Josh’s and my story. High school sweet-hearts? That’s Peter and Gen’s story. So what’s ours, then?I suppose I’ll say it all started with a love letter.”

“It will get easier each time, I think. I hope. I just have to keep trying.”

“Never say no when you really want to say yes.”

“Do you think there’s a difference? Between belonging with and belonging to?”

“When boy likes you, you say no thank you. You don’t kick him on the ground.”

“The most believable lies are the ones that are atleast a little bit true.”

“It’s hard to throw away history. It was like you were throwing away a part of yourself.”

“There hadn’t been one specific moment. It was like gradualy waking up. You go from being asleep to the space between dreaming and awake and then into consciousness. It’s a slow process, but when you’re awake, there’s no mistaking it. There was no mistaking that it had been love.”