All Quotes By Tag: Proactive
“My wife and I just don’t have the same feelings for each other we used to have. I guess I just don’t love her anymore and she doesn’t love me. What can i do?””The feeling isn’t there anymore?” I asked.”That’s right,” he reaffirmed. “And we have three children we’re really concerned about. What do you suggest?””love her,” I replied.”I told you, the feeling just isn’t there anymore.””Love her.””You don’t understand. the feeling of love just isn’t there.””Then love her. If the feeling isn’t there, that’s a good reason to love her.””But how do you love when you don’t love?” “My friend , love is a verb. Love – the feeling – is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that?”
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“I say if it’s going to be done, let’s do it. Let’s not put it in the hands of fate. Let’s not put it in the hands of someone who doesn’t know me. I know me best. Then take a breath and go ahead.”
“Tomorrow’ is the thing that’s always coming but never arrives. ‘Today’ is the thing that’s already here and never leaves. And because that’s the case, I would much prefer to invest in today than sit around waiting for an arrival that’s not arriving.”
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“Be suspicous of justifying comfortable scenarios.”
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“Anything irreversible should be granted the ‘everything’ of our attention.”
“And when we stand in the middle of whatever wilderness happens to be ours, we look around and ask, what plan got us here and what plan will get us out? The former is likely the product of our ignorant contrivances, while the latter is a formulation of God’s phenomenal genius. And have we ever considered that we might be in the wilderness because we’ve confused the two?”
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