All Quotes By Tag: Relationships

“This would be the structure of the “successful” couple: a little prohibition, a good deal of play; to designate desire and then to leave it alone, like those obliging natives who show you the path but don’t insist on accompanying you on your way.”

“We know that whether something is considered beautiful or ugly is in the eye of the beholder. What’s more revealing is that the beholder’s determination of what is beautiful and what is ugly is a valuable insight into the soul and psyche of that person. The beauty and the beast are mirrors. It’s never actually about the object; it’s really about us. Every person, situation, and idea is an interaction between the observer and the observed, and therefore, a potential source of knowledge. Every encounter is an opportunity to learn, not just about the object but about ourselves. Every encounter is therefore an opportunity to evolve. If we pay attention!”

“I’m realizing it doesn’t really matter if we have a happy ending or not. We’re happy right now. That’s the important part, right?”

“Grieving is intense and it is non-stop intense. Even if things are quiet, and you’re sitting there in your chair, kind of staring off into space, inside, the intensity is raging. – Lori Ennis”

“You alone caan create the change you seek. But how? By accepting things as they are, you allow yourself to make apt choices.”

“Her thought drew being from the obscure borderland. She could not explain in so many words, but she felt that those who prepare for all the emergencies of life beforehand may equip themselves at the expense of joy. It is necessary to prepare for an examination, or a dinner-party, or a possible fall in the price of stock: those who attempt human relations must adopt another method or fail.”

“Those we love become our teachers whether we intend it or not.”

“See over there, I can be me, he says. I smile but it makes me sad. I haven’t found any safe spaces. Damien says, you’re safe with me. Until I’m not. He raises an eyebrow. With you I mean, I add. I dream about an internship on the West Coast, but there is nothing for me to do. I am not the president’s daughter. I’ve never met a movie star. I barely watch television.”

“There is no one to laugh with about his cookies and milk, to gush about the fact that he is eighteen like I am eighteen only he seems much older.”

“It’s not about the sex, exactly. It’s the other stuff. Here’s the truth: I want ths so badly, To the point where it’s almost physically painful sometimes. I want Olivia’s soft voiced conversations with Evan Schulmeister, where she takes five steps away from us before she even answers the phone. Just to be alone with him. And I want the palpable waves of electric crush energy that radiate off Cassie these days. I want to know what it feels like to have crushes that could conceivably one day turn into boyfriends.”

“. . . forgive meIf you are not livingif you, my beloved, my loveif youhave died,all the leaves will fall on my breastit will rain upon my soul night and daythe snow will burn my heart,I shall walk with cold and fire and death and snowmy feet will want to march toward where you sleep,but I shall go on living . . .”

“Some relationships can kill off love just as surely as crushing a flower.”

“If we take care of the good stuff there, then the good stuff here is much easier to get.”

“We live in a culture that teaches us that “men” are the sexual aggressors and pursuers. We also live in a world where most women, trans, and non-binary folks have had negative experiences with men who are hitting on them. These factors tend to lead to some big gender differences for those exploring non-monogamy.Cisgender men often struggle when they first enter the world of non-monogamy. Within consensual non-monogamy (CNM) communities, most folks who sleep with cis men choose their partners based on referrals and endorsements. As in the world of business, it truly is who you know. Cis men who have been in the communities longer have dated and interacted with more people, and, therefore, have more word of mouth. It is an unfortunate reality that many, especially cisgender women, will not date men they don’t already know about through their friends and communities.So, if you’re a cis man exploring CNM, expect that it may take a while before you start seeing the kind of attention that others get. Focus on being kind, respectful, and honest. Respect the needs and boundaries of everyone with whom you interact. Spend lots of time getting to know other people simply as people – especially of your preferred gender to date – and form genuine friendships and connections with them free from any pressure to become sexual.”

“We never belonged to a country we could sell out.’By the time Jeong-il made that declaration, he had achieved perfect grades and attendance for eight years running, could correctly pronounce ‘certainly’ in English, explain the present perfect tense, and read and write cursive letters. Not to mention he had never shoplifted, shaken anyone down for money, or gotten in a fistfight. He avoided people altogether. Jeong-il was always alone. Even the teachers didn’t know how to relate to him. None of my other friends tried to get to know him either.”