All Quotes By Tag: Marriage

“I wondered straightaway how he could sit at peace there, of an evening, with the row of heads staring down at him. There were no pictures, no flowers: only the heads of chamois. The concession to melody was the radiogram and the stack of records of classical music.Foolishly, I had asked, “Why only chamois?”He answered at once, “They fear Man.”This might have led to an argument about animals in general, domestic, wild, and those which adapt themselves to the whims and vagaries of the human race; but instead he changed the subject abruptly, put on a Sibelius record, and presently made love to me, intently but without emotion. I was surprised but pleased. I thought, “We are suited to one another. There will be no demands. Each of us will be self-contained and not beholden to the other.”All this came true, but something was amiss. There was a flaw – not only the nonappearance of children, but a division of the spirit. The communion of flesh which brought us together was in reality a chasm, and I despised the bridge we made. Perhaps he did as well. I had been endeavouring for ten years to build for my self a ledge of safety. (“The Chamois”)”

“Marriage is more about snore strips and flannel nightgowns than candlelight dinners.”

“….though modern Marriage is a tremendous laboratory, its members are often utterly without preparation for the partnership function. How much agony and remorse and failure could have been avoided if there had been at least some rudimentary learning before they entered the partnership….And that statement is equally valid for all relationships.”

“Marriage is just an elaborate game that allows two selfish people to periodically feel that they’re not.”

“Attitude determines Altitude.Winners never quit.No venture, No gain.”

“As the hands of time sweep past the minutes of our life,As I begin to walk the path towards you,I hear the echo of a song.If your heartbeats whisper my name,Leave the door to your heart ajar.”

“I had begun to feel that life was a repetition of the same thing; that there was nothing new either in me or in him; and that, on the contrary, we kept going back as it were on what was old.”

“Naturally, I do blame Françoise. I blame her for having N in the first place. She was young, she was beautiful, she was married to a doctor, and she was intelligent. She could have abstained from producing her first son. It was wrong on a variety of levels.”

“Although I notice there is never a truly good time to have a nice long chat with one´s mother-in-law, unless you are having an extraordinary life and marriage and your mother-in-law is, say, Maureen Dowd, or Indira Gandhi. Someone of that ilk.”

“Très, très, triste…”

“Hope is putting Faith “on the line” and expecting results!(from Mission Possible – Spiritual Covering)”

“LADY BRACKNELLTo speak frankly, I am not in favour of long engagements. They give people the opportunity of finding out each other’s character before marriage, which I think is never advisable.”

“We’ve come a long way from the time when the crowning achievement in a woman’s life was her youthful marriage. And many would agree that this represents progress for women. But when did the search for someone to marry become self-absorbed and pathetic? This absence of social sympathy for women’s ambitions to marry is all the more striking because the social world has cared so deeply about virtually every other aspect of these privileged young women’s inner and outer lives. (…) The achievement of a good marriage is the one area of life where the most privileged, accomplished, and high achieving young women in society face a loss of support and sympathy for their ambitions and where the social expectations are for disappointment and failure, not success.”

“Honor your relationships by developing listening skills.”

“12% of people marry because they are completely in love. 88% of people marry just so they are then liable for only half of their rent.”